tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82879951994771712922024-02-08T09:46:21.893-08:00Wisdom Story - PhilosophicalPractical Philosophy and Wisdom StoriesAndy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-46313536582106908632010-01-24T10:58:00.001-08:002010-01-24T10:58:52.419-08:00Wisdom and Children<DIV><FONT face=Arial size=2><FONT face="Times New Roman" size=3></FONT> <P><FONT size=2>CHILDREN:</FONT></P> <P> <P style="TEXT-ALIGN: left"><FONT face=Verdana size=2><IMG class=aligncenter height=231 src="http://www.esmartproducts.co.uk/esm21/images/r.jpg" width=349></FONT></P><FONT size=2> <P>As we grow older we gain experience. These experiences are full of life's trial and tribulations. Yet sometimes we do not use them to grow stronger, we just use them to cast doubt on our next action. If the memory of the experience is strong enough it may be enough to dislodge our current view.</P> <P>Lessons in childhood however, seem to be the building blocks that establish our character, persona and attitude. So why do we allow these building blocks to remain in position, when equally important experiences follow in early adulthood?</P> <P>As we leave school our power of innocent attention is lost, and more regularly do we not fully comprehend a life lesson when it confronts us head on.</P> <P>A child will remain open-minded and believe whatever he is taught. Yet for some bizarre reason as we encounter the real world as a young adult, we are almost invited to put on blinkers.</P> <P>If you can continue to grow stronger through the trials that you encounter, rejoice in its beauty, because most people don't!</P> <P>The next story is about what a child can give and not realise he is giving. In fact the plot is reminiscent of the bible story of the Good Samaritan. It is certainly a lesson that when in child's life they may remember, but would an adult?</P> <P>A FRIEND</P> <P>One day, when I was a freshman in high-school, I saw a kid from my class who was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd." I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friend tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.</P> <P>As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and</P> <P>I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes. My heart went out to him.</P> <P>So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives." He looked at me and said, "Hey, thanks!" There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.</P> <P>We talked all the way home, and I carried his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play football on Saturday with me and my friends. He said yes. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him.</P> <P>And my friends thought the same of him.</P> <P>Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again. I stopped him and said, "Damn, boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!" He just laughed and handed me half the books.</P> <P>Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors, began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke.</P> <P>I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem. He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship.</P> <P>Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak.</P> <P>Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than me and all the girls loved him! Boy, sometimes I was jealous.</P> <P>Today was one of those days. I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. "Thanks," he said.</P> <P>As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began.</P> <P>"Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends. I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them. I am going to tell you a story."</P> <P>I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile. "Thankfully, I was saved. My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."</P> <P>I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment. I saw his mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile. Not until that moment did I realize its depth.</P> <P>Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person's life.</P> <P>"Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly."</P> <P>(Unknown Author).</P> <P>QUOTE: "The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials."</P> <P>(Chinese Proverb).</P></FONT> <P><FONT face=Verdana size=2>For more WISDOM Stories please follow this link:<BR></FONT><A href="http://wisdom-and-philosophy.com/"><FONT face=Verdana size=5>Wisdom and Philosophy Short Stories</FONT></A><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR> </FONT></P> <P><FONT face=Verdana size=1>Photo Source: esmartproducts .co.uk/esm21/images/r.jpg</FONT></P> <P><FONT face=Verdana size=1></FONT> </P></FONT></DIV>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-24748739412990914682009-09-16T10:18:00.001-07:002009-09-16T10:18:07.683-07:00Lead by Example<p>A SANDPIPER TO BRING YOU JOY</p><br /><p>I am a great lover of the statement to ‘Lead By Example’, today I have a beautiful story that has me in tears every time I read it.</p><br /><p>Whilst the story is about a man who is both confused and depressed the principle philosophy connection is based upon your skill to lead by example.</p><br /><p>QUOTE: “If you motivate an idiot, you get a motivated idiot. You need to educate before you motivate.” (Jim Rohn).</p><br /><p>Practical Philosophy is a difficult subject to teach as most of the quality insights are from your own experience. You know the fundamental principle, which once used in your own life, will provide the necessary truth in the principle.</p><br /><p>When you think your life is at its lowest point, depression and sadness may set in. But if you compared it with a different individuals troubled life, you may realise yours isn’t so bad after all.</p><br /><p>If you are an idiot, you may find that you attract idiots. If you are sensible, you’ll attract sensible people.</p><br /><p>If you have a fear, which maybe for the point of today’s story, a fear of depression, you’ll attract other people with the same problem. If you could control your fear, all the other people you know who suffer the same fear will benefit.</p><br /><p>Before you read the next story – go fetch a tissue...</p><br /><p><img alt="" src="http://www.birdfinders.co.uk/images/marsh-sandpiper-gambia-2005.jpg" border="0" /></p><br /><p>photo courtesy: birdfinders.co.uk</p><br /><p>Entitled: A SANDPIPER TO BRING YOU JOY (Adapted)</p><br /><p>“I'm a musician, songwriter and vocalist. I've spent two years in and out of the charts in the early 1990's. I'm disillusioned with the record business and their interest has waned as I have reached into my early thirties. I find little to interest me and easily get depressed with how this entertainment business works.</p><br /><p>I needed to chill-out, get some space and re-charge my batteries. I thought the world was beginning to close in. For the last decade my life was my music. I'd started to write songs for a few potential newcomers, but none of these bands had been signed up.</p><br /><p>I needed to get a new perspective on life so I rented an apartment by the sea for the winter of 2001. I couldn't put my finger on what was troubling me, but I knew I needed some time out. </p><br /><p>I was sure that just one incident was going to trigger me out of the doldrums. Then I was shocked into defeat, when I went through a few months I describe below. </p><br /><p>Today, I'm back writing songs in my studio, I have a smile and a new zest for life...</p><br /><p>It all started when...</p><br /><p>She was six years old when I first met her on the beach near where I'd moved to. I drive to this beach, a distance of three or four hundred yards, whenever the world begins to close in on me. She was building a sandcastle or something and looked up, her eyes as blue as the sea. "Hello," she said. I answered with a nod, not really in the mood to bother with a small child. <br />"I'm building," she said.</p><br /><p>"I see that. What is it?" I asked, not caring.</p><br /><p>"Oh, I don't know, I just like the feel of sand."</p><br /><p>That sounds good, I thought, and slipped off my shoes. A sandpiper glided by.</p><br /><p>"That's a joy," the child said.</p><br /><p>"It's a what?" "It's a joy. My mama says sandpipers come to bring us joy."</p><br /><p>The bird went gliding down the beach. "Good-bye, joy," I muttered to myself; "hello, pain," and turned to walk on. I was depressed; my life seemed completely out of balance. "What's your name?" She wouldn't give up.</p><br /><p>"Robert," I answered. "I'm Robert Peterson."</p><br /><p>"Mine's Wendy, I'm six."</p><br /><p>"Hi, Wendy." She giggled.</p><br /><p>"You're funny," she said.</p><br /><p>In spite of my gloom I laughed too and walked on. Her musical giggle followed me.</p><br /><p>"Come again, Mr. P," she called. "We'll have another happy day."</p><br /><p>The days and weeks that followed belong to others: a group of unruly Boy Scouts, PTA meetings, an ailing mother. The sun was shining one morning as I took my hands out of the dishwater. </p><br /><p>"I need a sandpiper," I said to myself gathering up my coat. The ever-changing balm of the seashore awaited me. The breeze was chilly, but I strode along, trying to recapture the serenity I needed. I had forgotten the child and was startled when she appeared.</p><br /><p>Hello, Mr. P," she said. "Do you want to play?"</P><br /><P>"What did you have in mind?" I asked, with a twinge of annoyance.</P><br /><P>"I don't know, you say." "How about charades?" I asked sarcastically. The tinkling laughter burst forth again. "I don't know what that is." "Then let's just walk." Looking at her, I noticed the delicate fairness of her face. "Where do you live?" I asked.</P><br /><P>"Over there." She pointed toward a row of summer cottages. </P><br /><P>Strange, I thought, in winter. "Where do you go to school?" "I don't go to school. Mommy says we're on holiday."<br /> <br />She chattered little girl talk as we strolled up the beach, but my mind was on other things. When I left for home, Wendy said it had been a happy day. Feeling surprisingly better, I smiled at her and agreed.</P><br /><P>Three weeks later, I rushed to my beach in a state of near panic. I was in no mood to even greet Wendy. I thought I saw her mother on the porch and felt like demanding she keep her child at home. "Look, if you don't mind," I said crossly when Wendy caught up with me, "I'd rather be alone today."</P><br /><P>She seemed unusually pale and out of breath. "Why?" she asked. I turned toward her and shouted, "Because my mother died!"</P><br /><P>I thought, my God, why was I saying this to a little child? "Oh," she said quietly, "then this is a bad day."</P><br /><P>"Yes," I said, "and yesterday and the day before and ~ oh, go away!" "Did it hurt?" she inquired.</P><br /><P>"Did what hurt?" I was exasperated with her, and with myself.</P><br /><P>"When she died?"</P><br /><P>"Of course it hurt!" I snapped, misunderstanding, and wrapped up in myself I strode off.</P><br /><P>A month or so after that, when I next went to the beach, she wasn't there. Feeling guilty, ashamed and admitting to myself I missed her, I went up to the cottage after my walk and knocked at the door. A drawn looking young woman with honey-coloured hair opened the door.</P><br /><P>"Hello," I said. "I'm Robert Peterson. I missed your little girl today and wondered where she was."</P><br /><P>"Oh yes, Mr. Peterson, please come in. Wendy spoke of you so much. I'm afraid I allowed her to bother you. If she was a nuisance, please accept my apologies." "Not at all ~ she's a delightful child," I said, suddenly realizing that I meant it. "Where is she?"</P><br /><P>"Wendy died last week, Mr. Peterson. She had leukaemia. Maybe she didn't tell you."</P><br /><P>Struck dumb, I groped for a chair. My breath caught. "She loved this beach; so when she asked to come, we couldn't say no.</p><br /><p>"She seemed so much better here and had a lot of what she called happy days. But the last few weeks, she declined rapidly..." her voice faltered. "She left something for you ... if only I can </P><br /><P>find it. Could you wait a moment while I look?"</p><br /><p>I nodded stupidly, my mind racing for something, anything, to say to this lovely young woman. She handed me a smeared envelope, with MR. P printed in bold, childish letters. Inside was a drawing in bright crayon hues, a yellow beach, a blue sea, and a brown bird. Underneath was carefully printed: A SANDPIPER TO BRING YOU JOY.</p><br /><p>Tears welled up in my eyes, and a heart that had almost forgotten to love opened wide. I took Wendy's mother in my arms. "I'm so sorry, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry," I muttered over and over, and we wept together.</p><br /><p>The precious little picture is framed now and hangs in my studio.</p><br /><p>Six words - one for each year of her life - that speak to me of harmony, courage, and an undemanding love. </p><br /><p>A gift from a child with sea-blue eyes and hair the colour of sand - who taught me the gift of love.”</p><br /><p>(Adapted by Andy Bolton from an Unknown Author, especially to have a musical slant).</p><br /><p>QUOTE: "As we are liberated from our fear, our presence automatically liberates other.” (Marianne Williamson).</P>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-81035660182169255192009-09-16T09:56:00.001-07:002009-09-16T09:56:14.351-07:00Short Wisdom Story<p>Shake it off and step up </p><br /><p>by Joseph Sica</p><br /><p>Once upon a time there was a farmer who had an old mule. The mule fell into a deep dry well and began to cry loudly. Hearing his mule cry, the farmer came over and assessed the situation. The well was deep and the mule was heavy. He knew it would be difficult, if not impossible, to lift the animal out.</p><br /><p>Because the mule was old and the well was dry, the farmer decided to bury the animal in the well. In this way he could solve two problems: put the old mule out of his misery and have his well filled.</p><br /><p><img alt="" src="http://www.ruralmissouri.coop/Images/RuralMissouri/Sept04/Mule280.jpg" border="0" /></p><br /><p>photo courtesy: ruralmissouri.coop</p><br /><p>He called upon his neighbors to help him and they agreed to help. To work they went. Shovel full of dirt after shovel full of dirt began to fall on the mule’s back. He became hysterical. Then all of a sudden an idea came to the mule. Each time they would throw a shovel full of dirt on his back he could shake it off and step up. Shovel full after shovel full, the mule would shake it off and step up. Now exhausted and dirty, but quite alive, the mule stepped over the top of the well and walked through the crowd.</p><br /><p>A great attitude. A great way to approach life. Shake it off and step up. Too often we hold on to what has happened to us.</p><br /><p>We hold on to it for a week, a month, even years. We cannot shake it loose from our memory. It eats away at us and steals our joy, happiness and peace of mind. The past hurt can create feelings of bitterness, resentment, anger and revenge.</p><br /><p>We keep allowing these emotions to be thrown on our backs and if we do nothing, we will be buried deep in the well. Walls will be built in our relationships. We will avoid each other and the cold war begins.</p><br /><p> But, we have a choice: keep it inside and embrace the hurt or shake it off and step up. Give it a try. Shake it off and step up. Words that have been said or actions that have been done, shake it off and step up. Let it go. Whatever it is: a rude comment, a past mistake, being ignored, we can stew over it all week. It occupies us all the time.</p><br /><p>Too often we nurse hurts, we keep them alive inside and go over them time and time again; not only stewing from them, but now chewing them over and over until it gets us sick. Too often we rehearse hurts, tell everyone what has happened to us.</p><br /><p>The cure is to accept what has happened, try to make sense out of it, learn from it, then shake it off and step up. When you let it go you feel free and you are no longer buried in the well. Once you are on your feet again you can take some action. You decide where you want to grow in life, the direction you want your life to take. You decide whether you will allow the hurt to make you a bitter or a better person. Learn from it. Emerge stronger.</p><br /><p>THAT'S LIFE! If we face our problems and respond to them positively, and refuse to give in to panic, bitterness, or self-pity...THE ADVERSITIES THAT COME ALONG TO BURY US USUALLY HAVE WITHIN THEM THE POTENTIAL TO BENEFIT AND BLESS US! </p><br /><p>Remember that FORGIVENESS --FAITH--PRAYER-- PRAISE and HOPE...all are excellent ways to "SHAKE IT OFF AND STEP UP" out of the wells in which we find ourselves!</p><br /><p>Andy Bolton</p><br /><p><a href="http://wisdom-and-philosophy.com/" target="_blank">Short Wisdom Stories</a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-21982066584345030792009-09-14T05:01:00.001-07:002009-09-14T05:01:55.052-07:00Science of Mind<p>The Dalai Lama influences many people, his theory about the science of mind also influence the science of Kharma. Allow this video the explore the subject further.</p><br /><p><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/YLuQBCi-h18" width="425" height="350" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></p><br /><p>I hope you enjoyed the video, please navigate this site further.</p><br /><p>Andy Bolton</p><br /><p><a href="http://wisdom-and-philosophy.com/intuition.html" target="_blank">Good Kharma</a></p></embed>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-20548016325045514692009-09-14T04:43:00.001-07:002009-09-14T04:43:27.291-07:00What is Love?<p>Love is such a complex subject. It is said that before you can love others, you must first love yourself. You must respect and admire your own actions, not to fuel your ego, but to make you credible.</p><br /><p>When you see this love, you can then offer an equal to others.</p><br /><p>Upon my study of anger, I found that 95% of the time anger is self inflicted. That is that when you are angry at someone, you were first angry at yourself.</p><br /><p>Love is exactly the same. If you sense your love is fading, first look at yourself and correct and tweak your own actions.</p><br /><p>If you could avoid expectations in love, you’ll be surprised at how frequent love repays your own endeavours.</p><br /><p>Imagine a few blissful hours with your children in the park. You’ve bonded a little more. You walk home alongside the supermarket and seen and old lady struggling with her shopping. You have no hesitation; you tell the children to hold on a moment until you’ve helped pack the shopping in the car boot for this lady.</p><br /><p>You return home and your partner has cooked the perfect meal, the house is tidy, the dining table set for a banquet. The children flitter through the house, find a seat to rest their tired body and sit quietly reading or watching television.</p><br /><p>That may or may not be the perfect ending to a few hours play in the park, but it was if someone was watching.</p><br /><p>The love you gave your children in the park, made you alert enough to see the lady struggling at the supermarket, whereas another day you’d have missed it. Your partner another day may well have been on the phone when you arrived back and flustered with the daily chores.</p><br /><p>If you give it, you’ll receive it back! If you live in a world of lies, you’ll only ever dream of love…</p><br /><p>Whilst this next story is called ‘Great Expectations’ it should be called, ‘Apply the Truth and Bliss Will Follow…’</p><br /><p>Great Expectations</p><br /><p>Pete Rose, the famous baseball player, and I have never met, but he taught me something so valuable that it changed my life.</p><br /><p>Pete was being interviewed in spring training the year he was about to break Ty Cobb's all time hits record. One reporter blurted out, "Pete, you only need 78 hits to break the record. How many at-bats do you think you'll need to get the 78 hits?" Without hesitation, Pete just stared at the reporter and very matter-of-factly said, "78." The reporter yelled back, "Ah, come on Pete, you don't expect to get 78 hits in 78 at-bats do you?"</p><br /><p>Mr. Rose calmly shared his philosophy with the throngs of reporters who were anxiously awaiting his reply to this seemingly boastful claim. "Every time I step up to the plate, I expect to get a hit! If I don't expect to get a hit, I have no right to step in the batter's box in the first place!"</p><br /><p>"If I go up hoping to get a hit," he continued, "Then I probably don't have a prayer to get a hit. It is a positive expectation that has gotten me all of the hits in the first place."</p><br /><p>When I thought about Pete Rose's philosophy and how it applied to everyday life, I felt a little embarrassed. As a business person, I was hoping to make my sales quotas. As a father, I was hoping to be a good dad. As a married man, I was hoping to be a good husband.</p><br /><p>The truth was that I was an adequate salesperson, I was not so bad of a father, and I was an okay husband. I immediately decided that being okay was not enough! I wanted to be a great salesperson, a great father and a great husband. I changed my attitude to one of positive expectation, and the results were amazing. I was fortunate enough to win a few sales trips, I won Coach of the Year in my son's baseball league, and I share a loving relationship with my wife, Karen, with whom I expect to be married to for the rest of my life! Thanks,<br />Mr. Rose!</p><br /><p>(Barry Spilchuk, Speaker and Author)</p><br /><p>QUOTE: “I love you, and because I love you, I would sooner have you hate me for telling the truth than adore me for telling you lies.”</p><br /><p>(Pietro Aretino)</p><br /><p>ANDY BOLTON</p><br /><p><a href="http://wisdom-and-philosophy.com/perception.html" target="_blank">What is Love?</a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-88993598573928422382009-02-13T07:57:00.001-08:002009-02-13T07:57:30.806-08:00Self Hypnosis<p align="center"><a href="http://www.wisdom-and-philosophy.com/hypnosis/self-hypnosis.html"><img height="327" alt="blogger | blogging" hspace="20" src="http://cinie.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/hypnotism.jpeg" width="258" align="middle" vspace="20" border="0" /></a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-15738655781766065872009-02-11T11:13:00.001-08:002009-02-11T11:13:20.311-08:00Self Hypnosis <i> <br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"> </p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><a href="http://phillipboo.nmachine.hop.clickbank.net/"><img height="242" alt="blogger | blogging" hspace="20" src="http://www.undergroundhypnosis.com/images/hypnosis.png" width="258" align="middle" vspace="20" border="0" /></a></p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center">***** o0o *****</p><br /><h1 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><font face="Verdana" color="#ff0000" size="5">Hypnosis</font></h1><br /><h2 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><font face="Verdana" color="#0000ff">Self Hypnosis</font></h2><br /><h4 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><font face="Verdana" color="#800080" size="4">How to Hypnotize</font></h4><br /><h5 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><font face="Verdana" color="#ffcc00" size="3">Learn Hypnotism</font></h5><br /><h5 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><font face="Verdana" color="#ffcc00" size="3">hypnosis for quitting smoking</font></h5><br /><h6 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><font face="Verdana" color="#66ffff" size="2">hypnosis for weight loss</font></h6><br /><h6 style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"><font face="Verdana" color="#66ffff" size="2">hypnosis techniques</font></h6><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center">***** o0o *****</p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px" align="center"> </p></i></i></i><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><b><font face="Verdana">Self Hypnosis - (to read the full story first follow this link)</font></b></p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"> </p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><i><a href="http://phillipboo.nmachine.hop.clickbank.net/"><font face="Verdana" size="7">Self Hypnosis</font></a></i></p><i><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><br />In this modern world people have mistaken the concept of hypnosis. Strangely the television hasn't helped this belief. Many think that hypnosis is meant for humour on the cabaret stage and has little transition into our daily life.<br /><br />I was explaining to my young teenage children that I remember seeing live pictures of men walking on the moon back in the 1960's. Amazingly I couldn't explain fully why further visits haven't been made. But what did come to mind, and I'm sure I've said it before myself... Why visit a distant planet when we can't cure the common cold; or have answers to why our devilish ego makes us do foolish things.<br /><br />Using the various techniques involved in this type of hypnosis, you can get people to do what you want them to do. These techniques can be easily learnt, if you are willing to put in some effort and invest some time towards it.</p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><br />Bizarre as it may seem we dip in and out of hypnotic states each day. Understanding this and exploring its potential allows us to put flying to the moon on hold for a few decades.<br /><br />Hypnosis has gained in popularity over time. More and more people have become interested in the whole concept behind this subject and how it works.<br /><br />This literally blew my mind, though now it seems obvious. A hypnotist isn't sending out magical brain-waves to put other people into trance. They only help us find that state within ourselves. We are the ones that are creating the bodily sensations and thoughts. That's why the more you trance you experience the better you get at it.</p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><br />Hypnosis is effective to make a person capable of controlling his mind and overcome several problems related to the mind. Hypnosis will help to interact with the unconscious mind of a person.<br /><br />Most people think of hypnosis as a way of controlling someone and getting them to do things they usually would not do. Dictionary describes hypnosis as a sleep-like state or to be in a state that resembles sleep. But most hypnotist disagree with the statement that hypnosis has anything with the sleep rather they believe that it is heightened state of acute awareness.<br /><br />Hypnosis then, using a hypnotists definition, is an altered state of consciousness... and in one way or another we have all experienced a light version of it - daydreaming being a good example.<br /><br />Some of the hypnotists also believe it can direct their subject's focus mind and communicating with the subject's subconscious mind. The goal it to distract the conscious mind and avoid the resistance often given by the conscious mind.<br /><br />Perhaps the greatest of all hypnosis secrets is the fact that it really is not that hard to learn. So many people are intrigued behind the subject and wish they knew how to hypnotize someone.<br /><br />Hypnotizing others is much easier than most people think. Confidence is the critical factor for your hypnosis success. If you don't have confidence, then you will probably fail. But if you start your hypnosis practice with confidence then you will have positive attitude and succeed in this way.<br /><br />This literally blew my mind, though now it seems obvious. A hypnotist isn't sending out magical brain-waves to put other people into trance. They only help us find that state within ourselves. We are the ones that are creating the bodily sensations and thoughts. That's why the more you trance you experience the better you get at it.</p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><br />The most powerful way to hypnotize someone is through what is called covert hypnosis, which is also known as conversational hypnosis or Ericksonian hypnosis. With this method you can literally walk up to a complete stranger, hold a conversation with them and induce them into a trance.<br /><br />Through hypnosis, you technically can influence the behaviour of others and lead them in a particular direction. You can do this in a way that they would normally resist. In general, it is a tool that increases suggestibility.<br /><br />People may have heard of the 'sugar pill' illusion. This is where they are given a medication to solve a temporary illness; and claim to feel the medication taking effect. When in reality it was only a sugar pill, with no medicinal composition at all. Meaning of course... it is all in the mind.<br /><br />Hypnosis can help you alter your subconscious to achieve and overcome your weight loss goals and obstacles. There are specific hypnosis techniques that were developed to help you stop smoking. You can learn to get the best performance from your body by using your mind.</p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><br />Such exploration of the power of the mind is both intriguing and fascinating. The best way to explore this subject further is to visit our Hypnotic Underworld and develop these skills yourself.<br /> </p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><a href="http://phillipboo.nmachine.hop.clickbank.net/"><font face="Verdana" size="7">Self Hypnosis</font></a></p><br /><p style="MARGIN-TOP: 0px; MARGIN-BOTTOM: 0px; MARGIN-LEFT: 10px" align="left"><br />Andy Bolton<br />from the Underworld of Hypnosis</p></i>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-78184988336211922112008-11-30T22:05:00.001-08:002008-11-30T22:05:16.079-08:00<p>ADAPTING TO CHANGE:</p><br /><p>Do we really know where our values reside and whether they are values and not a hidden selfishness?</p><br /><p>As I read today’s story I was in and out of support for the lady and her tale of emotional turmoil. But why would I swap and be with her one moment then opposing her another?</p><br /><p>These are the challenges we face every day. It is a case of structuring a formula that sees the dilemma and resolves it. Wisdom and Philosophy being the structure of course. Rather than work out an explanation and determine the ultimate answer, with the intensity and quality that Wisdom can give you; you act from an inner sense and work out the explanation afterwards.</p><br /><p>The story is entitled ‘Change’ but ultimately the lady isn’t going to change, so it could have easily been called ‘Not Changing’. I sense the lady is justifying her decision to go with her thoughts about life, but only she will know if it’s the right decision. The story has an immense value as it appears to explain how we approach every daily dilemma. We see it, we act … to read the full article, please follow this link:</p><br /><p><a href="http://www.wisdom-and-philosophy.com/leadership-wisdom.html" target="_blank">Online Wisdom</a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-48861812111374177132008-11-25T22:52:00.001-08:002008-11-25T22:52:27.596-08:00Self Development<p>SELF DEVELOPMENT:</p><br /><p>Why do we choose to accept a first impression?</p><br /><p>It seems that we have grown up with accepting them and therefore it becomes a habitual act. This accepting a habitual act alone proves how many other aspects of our life can be clouded by judgements made from assumptions.</p><br /><p style="TEXT-ALIGN: center" mce_style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter" height="272" alt="" src="http://www.baatltd.com/graphics/genesis_self_development_mainpic.jpg" width="350" mce_src="http://www.baatltd.com/graphics/genesis_self_development_mainpic.jpg" /></p><br /><p>Is accepting a first impression actually the first impression? More often than not it is the second impression. The first impression is a gut feeling that we discard incorrectly.</p><br /><p>I was out shopping with the family over the weekend and</p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-60709027527785024632008-11-10T23:59:00.001-08:002008-11-10T23:59:45.718-08:00How to Solve Problems<p> <font face="Verdana" size="2">SOLVING PROBLEMS:<br /> <br /> We solve problems by dipping into our knowledge and experience and producing an answer.<br /> <br /> Most adults will have the chance of experience as it happens directly in front of them each day. As for knowledge few choose to gather any more; as a consequence they will always be disadvantaged.<br /> <br /> To search for knowledge need not be tiresome, in a day of MEASURE there is always room for study.<br /> <br /> A measured day equals a measure life. Measure allows abundance to flow and happiness to flourish.</font></p><br /><p>To read the full article please follow this link:</p><br /><p><a href="http://www.wisdom-and-philosophy.com/wisdom-words.html">Words of Wisdom</a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-57546029096389385692008-11-07T23:17:00.001-08:002008-11-07T23:17:24.338-08:00100 Self Esteem Tips<p>100 WAYS TO IMPROVE<br />YOUR SELF-ESTEEM</p><br /><p>First it is important to understand the exact meaning of ‘Self-Esteem’. The Oxford English Dictionary definition is:</p><br /><p>“One’s good opinion of one-self.”</p><br /><p>What in essence we are trying to achieve with these 100 ways is to trigger a way back to a happy and contented state of mind.</p><br /><p>Many people, and the psychology profession wouldn’t be able to survive without them, use the process of improving SELF-ESTEEM as an important step to the development of feeling good about one-self again.</p><br /><p>This pathway back to a ‘good sense of worth’ may not be achieved with these 100 ways alone, but we can assure you that you will have been elevated sufficiently to see what’s required next.</p><br /><p>Allow me to just illustrate with a little story how we underestimate our worth: … to read the full article, please follow this link:</p><br /><p><a href="http://100selfesteemtips.wordpress.com/">100 Self Esteem Tips</a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-91730562238500840842008-11-07T22:49:00.001-08:002008-11-07T22:49:32.568-08:00Solving Problems<p>SOLVING PROBLEMS:</p><br /><p>For you; what is a problem? Is a problem just another noose around your neck, or is it a blessing in disguise?</p><br /><p>I guess the appropriate answer is how you perceive it to be. That perception is generally determined by the emotion you’re in at that moment.</p><br /><p>A change in perception can change the whole view of a problem. Today’s story illustrates the same principle but calls it an adjustment in attitude.</p><br /><p>As a few small problems seem to follow on from each other, is this not a sign that you’re not fully in control? You’re beginning to drift into the wrong emotion and no amount of effort will prevent further calamities.</p><br /><p>We cannot prevent this shift of emotion, but we can ... to read the full article, please follow this link:</p><br /><p><a href="http://www.wisdom-and-philosophy.com/wisdom-online.html">Wisdom Online</a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-58538318385026550172008-11-05T00:05:00.001-08:002008-11-05T00:05:52.568-08:00Obama's Victory - Good or Bad?<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">Politicians are notorious for breaking promises, but in Obama’s defense he does look both sincere and honest. As a ’white’ person I’m all for powerful speeches and words that change the world. I wish him all the best, yet he will be in for a rough ride I am sure.</p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><?xml:namespace prefix ="" o /><o:p> </o:p></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt">Martin Luther’s famous quote “… I have a dream … <span class="standardcontent">that some day our children will be judged not by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character … “<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span class="standardcontent"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span class="standardcontent">Obama has some big footprints to follow. On </span><?xml:namespace prefix ="" st1 /><st1:date year="2008" day="5" month="11"><span class="standardcontent">November 5<sup>th</sup> 2008</span></st1:date><span class="standardcontent"> I hope his wisdom and philosophies transform both the </span><st1:country-region><st1:place><span class="standardcontent">US</span></st1:place></st1:country-region><span class="standardcontent"> and the World.<o:p></o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span class="standardcontent"><o:p> </o:p></span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span class="standardcontent">For more Wisdom, please follow this link:</span></p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span class="standardcontent"></span> </p><br /><p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 0pt"><span class="standardcontent"><a href="http://www.wisdom-and-philosophy.com/leadership-wisdom.html">Leadership Wisdom</a></span></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-26749343014615445992008-11-04T06:10:00.001-08:002008-11-04T06:10:10.670-08:00First Impressions v Intuition<p><font face="Verdana" size="2">To improve our self development we need introduce a goodness that prevents the proverbial first impression being accepted. Making assumptions means that you are taking risks, and taking risks causes heartache and problems.<br /> <br />When you first see a tramp you show immediate empathy and sorrow; and only then do you put up your guard and make the recognizable ‘first impression’.<br /> <br />The more you assume the more you are making decisions without the full facts. This leads to inaccuracies in your life; you’ll be continually going over ground you’ve already trodden.</font></p><br /><p>To read the full article, please follow this link: <a href="http://www.wisdom-and-philosophy.com/">Intuition</a></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8287995199477171292.post-56368158750492824972008-04-16T02:46:00.000-07:002008-04-16T02:47:46.270-07:00Practical Philosophy StoryHere is your Friday STORY on:<br /><br />HAPPINESS:<br /><br />Happiness is not just looking for things that will make you smile. It is looking at things that would otherwise make you cringe, but somehow seeing a positive within it.<br /><br />At various times in my career I’ve stated, in specific relation to charity work, “You can have my time, but you can’t have my money,” or at other times, “You can my money, but you can’t have my time.”<br /><br />Whilst that is the basis of my comments I find that if I offer what I say I can’t give it makes me happy. When I’ve been on an income that had a strict budget applied and very little was available, if I gave £5 to charity it meant I was giving the earth but only I knew that. And; if when I had little time I offered a listening ear for ten minutes there was an expected frustration as I could ill afford the occasion. Yet upon reflection both of these made me happy knowing that someone was benefiting.<br /><br />Although I had set a limitation on my time and money when I’d chosen to relax that limit there was a ‘giving’. The instant I walked away from such encounters I can admit there was a frustration of using up such ‘value’; but a short time later upon reflection there was happiness.<br /><br />We ought to be more thankful for being occupied with a career. Unpredictable as some careers may be we still ought to be thankful.<br /><br />Imagine if you held such thankfulness during your day’s work; you would ‘shine’ and emanate happiness. Then imagine which people amongst a valued group would find that opportunities arose? Would it be the headless chickens are those who had everything under control? Would it be those who were bitter for being too busy, or those who handled being busy with an air of authority?<br /><br />Being thankful produces a calmer state of mind and happiness enjoys to manifest in such surroundings.<br /><br />BE THANKFUL<br /><br />Be thankful that you don't already have everything you desire. If you did, what would there be to look forward to?<br /><br />Be thankful when you don't know something,<br />for it gives you the opportunity to learn.<br /><br />Be thankful for the difficult times.<br />During those times you grow.<br /><br />Be thankful for your limitations,<br />because they give you opportunities for improvement.<br /><br />Be thankful for each new challenge,<br />because it will build your strength and character.<br /><br />Be thankful for your mistakes.<br />They will teach you valuable lessons.<br /><br />Be thankful when you're tired and weary,<br />because it means you've made a difference.<br /><br />It's easy to be thankful for the good things.<br />A life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks.<br /><br />Gratitude can turn a negative into a positive.<br />Find a way to be thankful for your troubles, and they can become your blessings.<br /><br />(Unknown Author)<br /><br />QUOTE: "Take adversity and make it an asset.” (Donald Trump)<br /><br /><br /><p style="margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0"><font face="Verdana" size="1"><a href="http://www.wisdom-and-philosophy.com/">Wisdom and Philosophy</a></font></p><br /><p style="margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0"><font face="Verdana" size="1"><a href="http://www.how-to-be-happy.co.uk/">How to be Happy</a></font></p>Andy Boltonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08323482227079621781noreply@blogger.com0